a little love lesson

one day sweets, youre going to meet an amazing person. someone you love and who loves you. there will be laughter and butterflies and this overwhelming sense of respect and care for that person. they will become such an important part of your life and you will keep them by your side through everything. 

and it wont always be easy. 

but i tell you these things to help you through that rough time. because in that moment, you might not know what to do. 

is that you should never walk away from a relationship while in a fight

because you sometimes say what you dont mean, to express what you DO mean, and it coes out ALL wrong.

people say "dont go to bed angry" but i know that is downright impossible sometimes. so i say "go to bed with your emotions IF YOU MUST, but give a kiss and an i love you before you fall asleep.

its okay to be angry, but know when you need space and time to think, and do not name call. cursing is all right if you need to emphasize your point. but dont name call. you are so so much more than that.

love.

sometimes when we are in a fight, when we are in a rough spot, your lover needs you. there are times Daddy has fought with me, only because he needed me. not to be a jerk. read your love, know what is needed and dont always be defensive.

for better or for worse was a phrase not invented because it is pretty, but invented because sometimes fights can be ugly. love is always beautiful. and know that sometimes things will happen and it will be rough, but there aint nothing like a soul mate.

you will know who is right and when they are right and when you are right and when you just want to be right.

but you and the right one will makeit.

also...i expect him to ask our permission to marry my baby girl :) just saying.

love you sweets.